Thou art chosen to be amongst….okay so it’s not that serious!
Picking the bridesmaids (bm’s) seemed to be a harder task than expected. There is no scheme, technique or practical method just a load of confusion. A confusion simply because when I jotted down the names of possible bm’s, I had over a dozen names. I could already see faces reading the previous sentence and thinking “do you seriously think you have that many close friends”, answer yes (at least I think) and I have 6 sisters. Now, as many articles suggest and as a good friend of mine said, “make sure your bridesmaids are ladies you can count on and know they will be there for you”. Made perfect sense but the list didn’t budge so much.
In the end, I made a decision that I knew would be best for both parties; besides not everyone can be a bridesmaid! but they can still be lovely ladies without a title. Though, I may have not picked some of these ladies they knew I still loved them and that is what mattered.
Moving along, next was the task of asking. A simple phone call couldn’t complete it for me so instead I created a card.
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